When you’re trying to decide what to do for a first date you’re probably thinking about where you’re going to go, what you’re going to do, what night is the best night for a first date, etc. However, what you’ll need to realize is that those things don’t really matter. Ultimately it’s all about whether the two people click. If you choose the perfect date location like dinner, if you choose a Friday night with a full moon or dress amazing, it might still not matter. I think nobody really enjoys first dates. The reason for that is because you’re auditioning for another person for the role of their future partner. How uncomfortable is that? Instead, take your date along to a completely casual event. Here are some unconventional first date ideas: Go to a bar to watch a basketball game, suggest you go grocery store shopping or invite them to your gym for a quick workout. If you invite them to take part in a day in your life they’ll really get to see you in your natural habitat, instead of at an awkward date audition.